Well, half the week is gone and so far we've seen nothing but blue skies and sunshine. However, true to Texas form, we're getting rain tomorrow night, which will usher in another cold front and leave the weekend cold and wet. ( Can you tell I watched the weather last night? haha)
Last night David was gone. He has been given another office about 3 hours away from here, and had to make his initial visit to them. So after watching American Idol with Collin, and tucking him in, I did about 20 minutes on the Wii Fit Plus.
I love having my workout place right here in my home! What a difference it makes. Now - I have a feeling that the progress could go either way - slower or faster - depending on my participation. The activities really do work your muscles, but I have to do more of them to burn the same amount of calories I was burning in 30 min. at Curves. The up side to the Wii is that I can do it multiple times throughout the day.
The activities are fun and you don't feel like you're dying while you're doing them. My workouts, so far, have consisted of yoga stretching, stepping, hula hooping, and flapping my arms like a chicken. And, believe it or not, my body actually felt something after that first day of flapping! I even got David to participate. At least it's getting us up off the couch! ( Although, we still have our Seinfeld time right before we turn in )
I finally had to break down and take Ted to the doctor yesterday. He's been battling a cold for a month now. Turns out, he was on the very edge of developing bronchitis. I love my pediatrician though. He's so at ease about everything. The only time he gets rattled is when it comes to taking care of the asthma. So, he prescribed an extreme nose spray and a zpak, and off we went. Of course, we had to make a stop at Chick-fil-a for brunch. The rest of the afternoon was filled with 2 phone calls, a little laundry, and other household tasks.
Today we will be hard at work on math, spelling, and a few other subjects. I'm starting to get the itch to buy our new curriculum for next year. That always happens to me about this time in the year. I start looking at what books can go to the Homeschool Store in Houston, what books I can sell here at home, and thinking about what I want for next year.
I just finished reading Managers of their Schools by Steve and Teri Maxwell, and that has given me some ideas for the direction I want to go next year. (If anyone is interested in their philosophy, you can ask me to elaborate).
On the homefront today - cleaning the house so it will be shining when David gets home this evening, making Beef Tips over noodles, and of course, working out! I think I'll challenge Collin to some balancing exercises and flapping like a chicken. Nothing like a little family fun!
Have a beautiful day!
Debbie
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Saturday, January 23, 2010
One Room Schoolhouse
This week we took a field trip back in time to 1898, to a one room schoolhouse.
The West Bay Common School
When we got there we were greeted by the "School marm", who promptly lined up the children - girls in one line, boys in another - rang the school bell, and marched us into the schoolhouse.
With proper etiquette, she directed the children to stand beside their assigned desks until she gave the signal to be seated. But, before they could sit, each girl had to curtsy and state her first name, and the boys had to give a slight bow.
After we all sat at our desks, we were given proper instructions on how to sit - feet flat on the ground, backs nice and straight, and hands clasped and on the desk. This was quite different for a group of homeschoolers who are used to doing school all around the house. But they did so well!
In the course of our classroom time, she had us recite the pledge, which was different than the one the kids have grown up with, participate in a spelling bee, read out of the McGuffey Reader, do a math lesson, and learn how to write with an ink pen (that you dip into the inkwell on your desk.) The kids also got to write their spelling list on a "slate" which was inside their desks.
Spelling Bee
The boys doing their reading lesson.
The West Bay Common SchoolWith proper etiquette, she directed the children to stand beside their assigned desks until she gave the signal to be seated. But, before they could sit, each girl had to curtsy and state her first name, and the boys had to give a slight bow.
After we all sat at our desks, we were given proper instructions on how to sit - feet flat on the ground, backs nice and straight, and hands clasped and on the desk. This was quite different for a group of homeschoolers who are used to doing school all around the house. But they did so well!
In the course of our classroom time, she had us recite the pledge, which was different than the one the kids have grown up with, participate in a spelling bee, read out of the McGuffey Reader, do a math lesson, and learn how to write with an ink pen (that you dip into the inkwell on your desk.) The kids also got to write their spelling list on a "slate" which was inside their desks.
Spelling Bee
The boys doing their reading lesson.After the classroom portion of the day, the school marm took the kids into the museum on the property and showed them many items from that time period. They had to put on white gloves as they handled the items, as to protect and preserve each thing from the oils in their hands. She even brought out an old school paddle, which she demonstrated (without the actual spanking) on Collin.
The next adventure took place outside, as she demonstrated to the children, a few of the outdoor games the children of 1898 would have played. The activities included hitting a large wooden ring with a stick while racing around the schoolhouse, jump roping, and hoola hoop (with the same large wooden ring).
And the very last thing the kids got to do was pump their own water into a homemade paper cup. If you made the cup correctly, you were good to get a few sips before the water poured out the sides.
Overall, this is one of the best field trips we've ever taken. Of course, I'm slightly biased. My freshman year in college, I did my public speaking assignment (for Speech 101) on One Room Schoolhouses. I will forever love these buildings and the nostalgia that accompanies them.
I hope you enjoyed your virtual tour!
The next adventure took place outside, as she demonstrated to the children, a few of the outdoor games the children of 1898 would have played. The activities included hitting a large wooden ring with a stick while racing around the schoolhouse, jump roping, and hoola hoop (with the same large wooden ring).
And the very last thing the kids got to do was pump their own water into a homemade paper cup. If you made the cup correctly, you were good to get a few sips before the water poured out the sides.
Overall, this is one of the best field trips we've ever taken. Of course, I'm slightly biased. My freshman year in college, I did my public speaking assignment (for Speech 101) on One Room Schoolhouses. I will forever love these buildings and the nostalgia that accompanies them.
I hope you enjoyed your virtual tour!
Wii's, Field trips and 80's Trivia
This has been an eventful week. Nothing monumental, just alot of things going on around the house.
At the beginning of the week David went to Houston for a few days. Normally the company sends them on a trip in January, but due to cutting expenses, they had their meeting in Houston, just an hour and a half from us. That was really nice for David, as he didn't have to go far to get there or get back.
The day he left, Collin and I went on a mad shopping trip to find a Wii and the Wii Fit Plus, all to no avail. I went into 4-5 stores and no one had either item. I then learned that Nintendo restocks all the stores at the same time (crazy) and no one knew when that would be. So, we went home empty handed. BUT - I did find one at Overstock.com, ordered it, and received it within 2 days, and only paid $2.95 shipping!! Now that's my kind of shopping! Unfortunately, the Wii Fit Plus won't be here until Monday, but I will patiently wait.
Now, for those of you who know that I was going to Curves, you may be wondering why I went out and bought the Wii. Well, the truth is that going to Curves was making me stressed and I grew to hate it!
Every morning it was a battle (with myself) to try and fit that into my schedule. It messed up everyone's morning routine, especially mine. Then we would get started with school later than I liked, and it just stressed me out. I really needed to be going in the afternoon, but Ted had to be at work at 3pm and that left Collin with no where to go (can't leave him home alone). Curves was closed between 1-3. So, it just wasn't working for me.
So, today Collin will set up my Wii and when the program comes in on Monday, I will be ready to go with my new fitness program - right in my own home! I'm really excited!
Thursday we went to a One Room Schoolhouse, which I will write about in a separate post.
Friday we had 2 couples from our Sunday School class over to play 80's Trivia. We haven't laughed that hard in a long time! The game is just like the original Trivia Pursuit, but it's all about the 80's. Apparently I wasn't paying attention in the 80's, as I didn't know 95% of the answers. Of course, somehow David and I kept landing on Sports, so that didn't help. The one time David guessed the right answer, I said it wasn't right, and we got it wrong. After that, I let him answer and we went with it.
I fixed Santa Fe Soup, Cornbread Dip, and one friend brought "Dirt" pudding. They didn't leave until after 11:00, and I was tired! That's late for me!
Today, I am looking forward to just being at home and not going anywhere. I love Saturdays when we can all be here, working on things, taking our time, and not having any outside obligations.
Well, I'm off to write about our field trip.
Until next time.....
Debbie
At the beginning of the week David went to Houston for a few days. Normally the company sends them on a trip in January, but due to cutting expenses, they had their meeting in Houston, just an hour and a half from us. That was really nice for David, as he didn't have to go far to get there or get back.
The day he left, Collin and I went on a mad shopping trip to find a Wii and the Wii Fit Plus, all to no avail. I went into 4-5 stores and no one had either item. I then learned that Nintendo restocks all the stores at the same time (crazy) and no one knew when that would be. So, we went home empty handed. BUT - I did find one at Overstock.com, ordered it, and received it within 2 days, and only paid $2.95 shipping!! Now that's my kind of shopping! Unfortunately, the Wii Fit Plus won't be here until Monday, but I will patiently wait.
Now, for those of you who know that I was going to Curves, you may be wondering why I went out and bought the Wii. Well, the truth is that going to Curves was making me stressed and I grew to hate it!
Every morning it was a battle (with myself) to try and fit that into my schedule. It messed up everyone's morning routine, especially mine. Then we would get started with school later than I liked, and it just stressed me out. I really needed to be going in the afternoon, but Ted had to be at work at 3pm and that left Collin with no where to go (can't leave him home alone). Curves was closed between 1-3. So, it just wasn't working for me.
So, today Collin will set up my Wii and when the program comes in on Monday, I will be ready to go with my new fitness program - right in my own home! I'm really excited!
Thursday we went to a One Room Schoolhouse, which I will write about in a separate post.
Friday we had 2 couples from our Sunday School class over to play 80's Trivia. We haven't laughed that hard in a long time! The game is just like the original Trivia Pursuit, but it's all about the 80's. Apparently I wasn't paying attention in the 80's, as I didn't know 95% of the answers. Of course, somehow David and I kept landing on Sports, so that didn't help. The one time David guessed the right answer, I said it wasn't right, and we got it wrong. After that, I let him answer and we went with it.
I fixed Santa Fe Soup, Cornbread Dip, and one friend brought "Dirt" pudding. They didn't leave until after 11:00, and I was tired! That's late for me!
Today, I am looking forward to just being at home and not going anywhere. I love Saturdays when we can all be here, working on things, taking our time, and not having any outside obligations.
Well, I'm off to write about our field trip.
Until next time.....
Debbie
Monday, January 18, 2010
Are you performing for God?
This morning I have been reading from Jen Hatmaker's book "Make Over". She has such an easy, conversational way of writing, that you feel as though she is in the room with you, just talking and teaching.
The chapter I read today had so many nuggets of wisdom, that I just felt I needed to share a few, with my friends.
The question she presented today was:
"Why do people prefer theology, denominations, or formulas about God over a real relationship with Him?"
Such a great question! Man-made religion is all about rules, formulas for success, and doctrines. These things can kill a relationship with Christ. That's why Christ hung on the cross! We couldn't live by the law; we were failures at it! And yet, even though we have been given freedom, we still constrict ourselves by lists and rules and to-do lists a mile long, trying to perform for Him.
Jen also says in this chapter: "Jesus did not die so we could have a new set of rules." And, "If your faith looks more like a to-do list than a friendship, you have derailed."
I totally agree with her opinion in this study.
As a Baptist, I have battled the idea of "doing" for many years. But it's not just the Baptist; all religions have their rules and lists of what you have to do to be "right" with God.
I first began to sense this about 3 years into my relationship with the Lord. I was teaching a women's Bible study, and came across a book that listed the "proper" way to pray. What? I need a list of what to say and when, just to talk to God? You know the kind - #1 Thanksgiving, #2 Praise, #3 blah, blah, blah!
Immediately after reading this book (by a well-known author), I began to feel the burden of having to perform a certain way. After being in the church for 21 years now, I have seen this way of thinking magnified by thousands, and it's crippling the church!
I could go on and on, and vent my frustrations about religion. However, that's not my intention or desire today. I really just wanted to share her quotes in hope that someone, who has struggled with trying to perform for God, will read this and feel the freedom today, that Christ intended you to have.
If you have been burdened by the idea that you must come to God in a organized fashion, with bullet points for prayers, and in a certain order, in order to be heard - take heart my friend. "He'd take your messiest, ugliest prayer over your silence." And might I add to her quote with my own:
"He'd take a messed up, in no certain order, sincere prayer straight from your heart, over a contrived, stiff, scared to mess up, prayer - anyday."
Have a beautiful day!
The chapter I read today had so many nuggets of wisdom, that I just felt I needed to share a few, with my friends.
The question she presented today was:
"Why do people prefer theology, denominations, or formulas about God over a real relationship with Him?"
Such a great question! Man-made religion is all about rules, formulas for success, and doctrines. These things can kill a relationship with Christ. That's why Christ hung on the cross! We couldn't live by the law; we were failures at it! And yet, even though we have been given freedom, we still constrict ourselves by lists and rules and to-do lists a mile long, trying to perform for Him.
Jen also says in this chapter: "Jesus did not die so we could have a new set of rules." And, "If your faith looks more like a to-do list than a friendship, you have derailed."
I totally agree with her opinion in this study.
As a Baptist, I have battled the idea of "doing" for many years. But it's not just the Baptist; all religions have their rules and lists of what you have to do to be "right" with God.
I first began to sense this about 3 years into my relationship with the Lord. I was teaching a women's Bible study, and came across a book that listed the "proper" way to pray. What? I need a list of what to say and when, just to talk to God? You know the kind - #1 Thanksgiving, #2 Praise, #3 blah, blah, blah!
Immediately after reading this book (by a well-known author), I began to feel the burden of having to perform a certain way. After being in the church for 21 years now, I have seen this way of thinking magnified by thousands, and it's crippling the church!
I could go on and on, and vent my frustrations about religion. However, that's not my intention or desire today. I really just wanted to share her quotes in hope that someone, who has struggled with trying to perform for God, will read this and feel the freedom today, that Christ intended you to have.
If you have been burdened by the idea that you must come to God in a organized fashion, with bullet points for prayers, and in a certain order, in order to be heard - take heart my friend. "He'd take your messiest, ugliest prayer over your silence." And might I add to her quote with my own:
"He'd take a messed up, in no certain order, sincere prayer straight from your heart, over a contrived, stiff, scared to mess up, prayer - anyday."
Have a beautiful day!
Saturday, January 16, 2010
My New Bath and Closet
Here are some pictures of our new closet/washroom that David built us this year. This is just a shot of my side. David has 2 walls of drawers, hanging clothes, and hat hooks.
This is what our new bathroom looks like so far. I have been looking for a navy shower curtain that has a print (Americana style) but, no luck. I will be searching online this week for something. So for now, it's alot of white and red, but the goal is to make the shower curtain the blue accent for the room.
This is our little Americana bedroom! I love the way this turned out! Years ago we stayed in a bed and breakfast in Marshall, Texas, and we stayed in an "Americana" room. From that day on, I was determined to have a room in my house that was decorated in this style. That was 9 years ago!! Sometimes our dreams take a while to manifest.
That's just a glimpse into our little farmhouse.
See ya soon!
Debbie
Friday, January 15, 2010
I Won an Award!
I won an award!!
My wonderful friend, Joyce, from "A Fistful of Dandelions" gave me the "Beautiful Blogger" award!
I don't know how to move the award from her blog to mine, but I am supposed to list 7 things about myself that you may or may not want to know. So here goes:
7 Things about me that you may or may not want to know:
My husband calls me Spunky (have no idea why!)
I prefer crunchy over soggy
I was in a beauty pageant as a teen (Ms. Teen of Texas) (didn't get squat!)
I don't eat chicken on the bone (neither do my kids - oops)
I had the same cat from 1st-12th grade (rest in peace KitKat)
I've never colored my hair
I don't wear dresses
Well, there you have it - some of the most fascinating facts you probably never wanted to know!
Thanks Joyce! That was fun!
My wonderful friend, Joyce, from "A Fistful of Dandelions" gave me the "Beautiful Blogger" award!
I don't know how to move the award from her blog to mine, but I am supposed to list 7 things about myself that you may or may not want to know. So here goes:
7 Things about me that you may or may not want to know:
My husband calls me Spunky (have no idea why!)
I prefer crunchy over soggy
I was in a beauty pageant as a teen (Ms. Teen of Texas) (didn't get squat!)
I don't eat chicken on the bone (neither do my kids - oops)
I had the same cat from 1st-12th grade (rest in peace KitKat)
I've never colored my hair
I don't wear dresses
Well, there you have it - some of the most fascinating facts you probably never wanted to know!
Thanks Joyce! That was fun!
Good Friday Morning!
Good Morning! It's only 6am and I'm up, dressed, make-up on with coffee in hand!
Ted (my 16 year old) had to be up at 4am this morning to work at the TV station. His normal shift is from 3pm-10pm, but they were short handed this morning and asked him if he would like to try the morning show. Being a teen, he wasn't thrilled about getting up at 4am, however, what sealed the deal was the fact that he would not have to work tonight. Friday night with no work makes a teen boy very happy!
He was a little nervous about working this morning because it's a 3 hour show! The longest show he has worked, so far, has been the 1 hour evening news, and that is a long time when you're standing on the studio floor behind a camera.
He wasn't sure what his assignment would be this morning, but I am hoping their show is filled with guests and interesting segments, to help his morning go by faster.
On my agenda today:
We have a support group meeting today. Our support group is a bit unique, as it is a very laid back co-op, too. Meaning - once a month we meet for a mom's meeting, but we also have one "class" per age group, plus snack and recreation.
Today the kids will start Drama for this second semester. The first semester, they learned about the Solar System and made some pretty cool projects. At the end of the year, we will have a Night at the Museum, and all the kids will display different items they have worked on throughout the year.
This is my kind of group - meeting only once a month!
For the remainder of the day, I'll be working on Ted's transcript, trying to finalize that, as well as, typing a letter to a few men that I need Letters of Recommendation from, for his portfolio.
I hope each of you is blessed today as you watch over your household.
Until next time.....
Debbie
Ted (my 16 year old) had to be up at 4am this morning to work at the TV station. His normal shift is from 3pm-10pm, but they were short handed this morning and asked him if he would like to try the morning show. Being a teen, he wasn't thrilled about getting up at 4am, however, what sealed the deal was the fact that he would not have to work tonight. Friday night with no work makes a teen boy very happy!
He was a little nervous about working this morning because it's a 3 hour show! The longest show he has worked, so far, has been the 1 hour evening news, and that is a long time when you're standing on the studio floor behind a camera.
He wasn't sure what his assignment would be this morning, but I am hoping their show is filled with guests and interesting segments, to help his morning go by faster.
On my agenda today:
We have a support group meeting today. Our support group is a bit unique, as it is a very laid back co-op, too. Meaning - once a month we meet for a mom's meeting, but we also have one "class" per age group, plus snack and recreation.
Today the kids will start Drama for this second semester. The first semester, they learned about the Solar System and made some pretty cool projects. At the end of the year, we will have a Night at the Museum, and all the kids will display different items they have worked on throughout the year.
This is my kind of group - meeting only once a month!
For the remainder of the day, I'll be working on Ted's transcript, trying to finalize that, as well as, typing a letter to a few men that I need Letters of Recommendation from, for his portfolio.
I hope each of you is blessed today as you watch over your household.
Until next time.....
Debbie
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Household Ways
In my last post - which was just a few hours ago - I wrote that I haven't had much to say this week. Now I'm giving you two posts in just a few hours of one another! But, something came to my attention today and I wanted to write it down.
I have struggled for all my homeschooling years, to have the perfect schedule. In my perfect fantasy world, I am a scheduled person. You get more done, more productive, all those positive things. I like knowing what comes next. I like having a to-do list, laying things out for me, so I know what direction I need to go. Translate that to homeschooling and I love to make out nice little lesson plans for each week.
BUT - in real life - it doesn't always turn out that way. Now, for many years I have struggled in this area. I make out schedules, charts, menus, etc. only to toss them due to constraints or failures. I've even given this area over to the Lord, asking for diligence and success. It's my proverbial "thorn in the flesh". It's always an issue between me and God.
I've come to realize that maybe I'm the only one (between me and God) that has the problem. I mean, I know that God is not a god of chaos. He is a "teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom" kind of god.
But, I think I've been too hard on myself over the years and this morning I've had kind of a revelation.
I've realized this morning that I do have a routine and have basically had the same routine for years. It may not be written on paper, but it's written in the rhythm of our household.
I had this revelation today as I was giving Collin the typical morning instructions. The tasks never change. The basic routine of my kid's lives have remained consistent. The basic flow of our schooling has remained consistent. Oh yes! I've changed curriculums, order of subjects, reading places, etc. , but the flow is familiar and comfortable. Does this make any sense?
There are just certain things in our home that end up at the same time every day. Like our smoothies, for instance. On "smoothie" day, around 10:30, you will find me in the kitchen, fruit in the blender, making our healthy snack. The kids will slowly emerge from their rooms asking "are the smoothies ready yet?" to which I will reply "almost". This is a rhythm.
Then there is the area of chores. I don't have a chore list. I've tried many times to perfect this area, but it just never sticks. What?? A homeschooling mom without a chore list? Sounds insane! I know, I know, but it doesn't last, so I don't do it.
The way I delegate chores is by asking the kids to help me with whatever tasks need to be done that day. I tell them what needs to be done, they do it. End of story. No big chart, no stickers as rewards, just a simple method that seems to work for us.
So what's the big revelation today? This: that maybe I'm not so dysfunctional after all. I may not have perfected the art of writing it all down and following it to a "t", but it's there - the rhythm - and it's not a failure. It's all getting done and we're happy. We're accomplishing school, cleanliness, happiness, not starving, and loving our life.
And I still have time to blog (and it wasn't even on the schedule).
Blessings my friends (and don't be so hard on yourself today),
Debbie
I have struggled for all my homeschooling years, to have the perfect schedule. In my perfect fantasy world, I am a scheduled person. You get more done, more productive, all those positive things. I like knowing what comes next. I like having a to-do list, laying things out for me, so I know what direction I need to go. Translate that to homeschooling and I love to make out nice little lesson plans for each week.
BUT - in real life - it doesn't always turn out that way. Now, for many years I have struggled in this area. I make out schedules, charts, menus, etc. only to toss them due to constraints or failures. I've even given this area over to the Lord, asking for diligence and success. It's my proverbial "thorn in the flesh". It's always an issue between me and God.
I've come to realize that maybe I'm the only one (between me and God) that has the problem. I mean, I know that God is not a god of chaos. He is a "teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom" kind of god.
But, I think I've been too hard on myself over the years and this morning I've had kind of a revelation.
I've realized this morning that I do have a routine and have basically had the same routine for years. It may not be written on paper, but it's written in the rhythm of our household.
I had this revelation today as I was giving Collin the typical morning instructions. The tasks never change. The basic routine of my kid's lives have remained consistent. The basic flow of our schooling has remained consistent. Oh yes! I've changed curriculums, order of subjects, reading places, etc. , but the flow is familiar and comfortable. Does this make any sense?
There are just certain things in our home that end up at the same time every day. Like our smoothies, for instance. On "smoothie" day, around 10:30, you will find me in the kitchen, fruit in the blender, making our healthy snack. The kids will slowly emerge from their rooms asking "are the smoothies ready yet?" to which I will reply "almost". This is a rhythm.
Then there is the area of chores. I don't have a chore list. I've tried many times to perfect this area, but it just never sticks. What?? A homeschooling mom without a chore list? Sounds insane! I know, I know, but it doesn't last, so I don't do it.
The way I delegate chores is by asking the kids to help me with whatever tasks need to be done that day. I tell them what needs to be done, they do it. End of story. No big chart, no stickers as rewards, just a simple method that seems to work for us.
So what's the big revelation today? This: that maybe I'm not so dysfunctional after all. I may not have perfected the art of writing it all down and following it to a "t", but it's there - the rhythm - and it's not a failure. It's all getting done and we're happy. We're accomplishing school, cleanliness, happiness, not starving, and loving our life.
And I still have time to blog (and it wasn't even on the schedule).
Blessings my friends (and don't be so hard on yourself today),
Debbie
Just Checking In
For some reason I just haven't had much to say this week. The week started off with me feeling energetic and it's gone down hill from there.
Collin woke up sick on Tuesday. Everytime his friend James gets a cold, so does Collin. He was very sick on Tuesday and finally a bit better yesterday. I don't know about you - but when one of my kids are sick, I get stressed out! So that kind of set the tone for the last few days.
I've been working on college prep for Ted. You know - we had his life all layed out, then he had to go and get an opinion of his own!! We were planning on him going to a local Jr. College for an Associates degree in Sound Engineering, then moving on to a university to obtain his Bachelor's. Now he has decided he doesn't want to go to the Jr. College - just start at Dallas Baptist University.
DBU has the exact degree in Music Business that he wants, but it's in Dallas and very expensive, and besides that - he's not going until he's 18, so that means we have a year in between.
That's what I've been working on - the year in between.
I was wanting to do College Plus and have him CLEP out of his basics, but DBU only accepts 15 credits from CLEP. It will help, but I have to do some more talking with CP to find out if it's worth going through them for that few hours. I like the idea of them guiding us and laying out the schedule for Ted, instead of me trying to orchestrate all of that.
Which brings me to transcripts. I've been looking into Homeschool Tracker, but found out they don't accommodate MAC. Then I signed up for a free tracking program called Homeschool Skedtrack, but when I tried to log in, it said I couldn't. AHHHHH!
So, I'll be trying some more of that today. I have Transcript Pro on CD, but was trying to go for a more complete program.
As far as exercise goes - I'm really fighting this Curves thing. I honestly don't know if I'm making any progress. Everyday after I work out, I put my electronic key into their computer and it shows my progress and how I did on that day's workout. My technique on the machines has improved, but I don't really feel anything body-wise. I was tempted to just get the Wii Fit so that I would have the convenience of doing it on my own time.
That's my biggest obstacle - finding the right time to leave the house and go to Curves. I've been going around 7:45am, but since we normally start school at 9:00, that leaves the kids here, without me here to push them to get ready for school. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can hear it now "they can do that on their own, blah, blah, blah." Well, in a perfect world I guess that would be true. But with my 10 year old - he's needs some pushing! Today I'm going to try to go during our lunch break and see if that helps.
Tonight Ted will be playing with the worship band in the parking lot of Chick-Fil-A. Our local CFA invites Christian bands to set up in their parking lot quite often. It's great because this is one of the busiest streets in town, so they get alot of exposure.
Well, I'm off to have breakfast and wake the kids. Praying for a good, healthy day!
Debbie
Collin woke up sick on Tuesday. Everytime his friend James gets a cold, so does Collin. He was very sick on Tuesday and finally a bit better yesterday. I don't know about you - but when one of my kids are sick, I get stressed out! So that kind of set the tone for the last few days.
I've been working on college prep for Ted. You know - we had his life all layed out, then he had to go and get an opinion of his own!! We were planning on him going to a local Jr. College for an Associates degree in Sound Engineering, then moving on to a university to obtain his Bachelor's. Now he has decided he doesn't want to go to the Jr. College - just start at Dallas Baptist University.
DBU has the exact degree in Music Business that he wants, but it's in Dallas and very expensive, and besides that - he's not going until he's 18, so that means we have a year in between.
That's what I've been working on - the year in between.
I was wanting to do College Plus and have him CLEP out of his basics, but DBU only accepts 15 credits from CLEP. It will help, but I have to do some more talking with CP to find out if it's worth going through them for that few hours. I like the idea of them guiding us and laying out the schedule for Ted, instead of me trying to orchestrate all of that.
Which brings me to transcripts. I've been looking into Homeschool Tracker, but found out they don't accommodate MAC. Then I signed up for a free tracking program called Homeschool Skedtrack, but when I tried to log in, it said I couldn't. AHHHHH!
So, I'll be trying some more of that today. I have Transcript Pro on CD, but was trying to go for a more complete program.
As far as exercise goes - I'm really fighting this Curves thing. I honestly don't know if I'm making any progress. Everyday after I work out, I put my electronic key into their computer and it shows my progress and how I did on that day's workout. My technique on the machines has improved, but I don't really feel anything body-wise. I was tempted to just get the Wii Fit so that I would have the convenience of doing it on my own time.
That's my biggest obstacle - finding the right time to leave the house and go to Curves. I've been going around 7:45am, but since we normally start school at 9:00, that leaves the kids here, without me here to push them to get ready for school. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can hear it now "they can do that on their own, blah, blah, blah." Well, in a perfect world I guess that would be true. But with my 10 year old - he's needs some pushing! Today I'm going to try to go during our lunch break and see if that helps.
Tonight Ted will be playing with the worship band in the parking lot of Chick-Fil-A. Our local CFA invites Christian bands to set up in their parking lot quite often. It's great because this is one of the busiest streets in town, so they get alot of exposure.
Well, I'm off to have breakfast and wake the kids. Praying for a good, healthy day!
Debbie
Monday, January 11, 2010
We're having a heat wave!
It's almost 50 degrees today! We're having a heat wave here in Texas! For the first time in a week, we actually WANT to go outside. Hope it lasts. I'll take the humidity over the arctic anyday!
I started my morning off with Bible study, which was wonderful. I completed a short study on the Sabbath and learned some interesting things about that topic, which I'll share later.
I left the house at 7:45am to go to Curves for a workout. The gauge in my Tahoe said 22 degrees! When I reached the parking lot (about 5 min. down the road) the temp had dropped to 21.
Once inside, I was shocked to find about 6 other women working out. Yes, this is unusual considering the entire month of December I was one of 2-3 women at any given time. I guess the New Year's resolutions were in full force. It's a little more comfortable when there are only a few at a time, but I'm glad to see everyone getting fit.
Curves started a "bootcamp" today, which means they will be tracking our progress: frequency of workouts, measurements, gains and losses. We're supposed to go at least 3 times a week. This has been the biggest challenge for me (as a homeschool mom) to find the best time to be out of the house. So far, the morning is working, but hectic.
I've got several projects on my "to do" list this week:
Load Transcript Pro on the Mac (had it on the old computer, but now we have a Mac, so all records have to be reloaded)
Transfer 2009 records to a file box and get folders ready for 2010 records (these are home records - bills, receipts, medical, taxes, etc.)
Finalize my menu for the month
Create a monthly paper goods list. My goal is to buy once a month or 2 times a month, all the paper goods, cleaning, toiletries, etc. that we use. I've wavered on this only because I've thought that I might miss the sales. We'll see. Some things are just trial and error. The purpose would be that the fewer times I'm actually IN the store, the less money I spend.
And, last but certainly not least: create or re-create our DEBT SNOWBALL PLAN (for all you Dave Ramsey fans) New year/new totals to work with. I can't wait to be debt free!!
Looks like a hefty list - I guess I'd better get started.
Pictures of the new bath coming soon!
Blessings to each of you!
Debbie
I started my morning off with Bible study, which was wonderful. I completed a short study on the Sabbath and learned some interesting things about that topic, which I'll share later.
I left the house at 7:45am to go to Curves for a workout. The gauge in my Tahoe said 22 degrees! When I reached the parking lot (about 5 min. down the road) the temp had dropped to 21.
Once inside, I was shocked to find about 6 other women working out. Yes, this is unusual considering the entire month of December I was one of 2-3 women at any given time. I guess the New Year's resolutions were in full force. It's a little more comfortable when there are only a few at a time, but I'm glad to see everyone getting fit.
Curves started a "bootcamp" today, which means they will be tracking our progress: frequency of workouts, measurements, gains and losses. We're supposed to go at least 3 times a week. This has been the biggest challenge for me (as a homeschool mom) to find the best time to be out of the house. So far, the morning is working, but hectic.
I've got several projects on my "to do" list this week:
Load Transcript Pro on the Mac (had it on the old computer, but now we have a Mac, so all records have to be reloaded)
Transfer 2009 records to a file box and get folders ready for 2010 records (these are home records - bills, receipts, medical, taxes, etc.)
Finalize my menu for the month
Create a monthly paper goods list. My goal is to buy once a month or 2 times a month, all the paper goods, cleaning, toiletries, etc. that we use. I've wavered on this only because I've thought that I might miss the sales. We'll see. Some things are just trial and error. The purpose would be that the fewer times I'm actually IN the store, the less money I spend.
And, last but certainly not least: create or re-create our DEBT SNOWBALL PLAN (for all you Dave Ramsey fans) New year/new totals to work with. I can't wait to be debt free!!
Looks like a hefty list - I guess I'd better get started.
Pictures of the new bath coming soon!
Blessings to each of you!
Debbie
Friday, January 8, 2010
One Crazy Week
This week has made my head spin! I'm so glad it's Friday. Or at least I think it's Friday.
Since David was off work on Monday and Tuesday, it didn't feel like Monday or Tuesday. So.....on Wednesday, when he went back to work and we started back to school, it felt like Monday, but it wasn't. Get the picture? So, now that it's Friday - oh, who knows! Regardless, this week has been messed up!
Trying to finish the bathroom project at the beginning of the week, working on lesson plans for this semester, going to a funeral, trying to keep up the workouts at Curves, grocery shopping before the freeze, and today - getting out of the house in 30 degree weather for a 4H meeting that will only last about an hour. I'm having a meltdown! (Al Gore would be so happy!)
All day yesterday I felt wound up like a rubber band. I seriously felt like - one more twist - and I would pop! Nothing monumental, just the constant rushing around, trying to do everything. Poor David was under the house wrapping pipes for 2 days! I never knew we had so many stupid pipes! Everytime he would run out of material or tape, I would have to run to the store (on top of everything I was trying to do). He finally finished yesterday afternoon and was exhausted.
By last night, David and Collin were watching the UT/Alabama game and I went to the bedroom for some quiet time with the Lord - my faithful companion. I needed that time so desperately. My bible study was in Galatians and the topic was "not performing". HUH? It brought me such needed freedom. I don't have to perform for God. He loves me regardless of what I do. I struggle in this area sometimes.
I want to do things (for Him) in a consistent manner, to show my love and devotion, but it's not necessary. He loves me regardless. That brings me peace.
Speaking of peace - nothing brings peace like shutting out the noise, closing your eyes, and asking God to slow down your mind. That's exactly what I needed yesterday - a slowing down of my mind; it was going faster than my body could perform.
But - today's a new day and I feel great! My feet are cold - the hazards of an old farmhouse on piers, but other than that - it's gonna be a great day!
Take care my friends and don't forget who the great "unwinder" is - only Jesus.
Blessings,
Debbie
Since David was off work on Monday and Tuesday, it didn't feel like Monday or Tuesday. So.....on Wednesday, when he went back to work and we started back to school, it felt like Monday, but it wasn't. Get the picture? So, now that it's Friday - oh, who knows! Regardless, this week has been messed up!
Trying to finish the bathroom project at the beginning of the week, working on lesson plans for this semester, going to a funeral, trying to keep up the workouts at Curves, grocery shopping before the freeze, and today - getting out of the house in 30 degree weather for a 4H meeting that will only last about an hour. I'm having a meltdown! (Al Gore would be so happy!)
All day yesterday I felt wound up like a rubber band. I seriously felt like - one more twist - and I would pop! Nothing monumental, just the constant rushing around, trying to do everything. Poor David was under the house wrapping pipes for 2 days! I never knew we had so many stupid pipes! Everytime he would run out of material or tape, I would have to run to the store (on top of everything I was trying to do). He finally finished yesterday afternoon and was exhausted.
By last night, David and Collin were watching the UT/Alabama game and I went to the bedroom for some quiet time with the Lord - my faithful companion. I needed that time so desperately. My bible study was in Galatians and the topic was "not performing". HUH? It brought me such needed freedom. I don't have to perform for God. He loves me regardless of what I do. I struggle in this area sometimes.
I want to do things (for Him) in a consistent manner, to show my love and devotion, but it's not necessary. He loves me regardless. That brings me peace.
Speaking of peace - nothing brings peace like shutting out the noise, closing your eyes, and asking God to slow down your mind. That's exactly what I needed yesterday - a slowing down of my mind; it was going faster than my body could perform.
But - today's a new day and I feel great! My feet are cold - the hazards of an old farmhouse on piers, but other than that - it's gonna be a great day!
Take care my friends and don't forget who the great "unwinder" is - only Jesus.
Blessings,
Debbie
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
The first day back and a funeral
If I have learned anything in my 12 years of homeschooling, it's that there will always be something unusual going on, on the first day of school.
The very first year of Ted's "schooling" - on the very first day - we heard our cat crying outside the front door. Upon our investigation we found that our cat was standing over a baby squirrel that had, evidently, fallen from a nearby tree. And so began our Kindergarten year. We rescued, fed, and later found a home for our little orphaned friend named "Acorn".
Every year since then, I have faithfully prepared for the first day of school, as well as the first day back, after the holidays, only to have "life" happen, almost every time.
Today was no different.
Today there was a funeral.
A friend who was in his early 30's, lost his battle with cancer. His testimony was strong, up until the last minute, and that was so evident by the packed sanctuary today. Stephen's greatest desire and concern, even as he struggled to breath in his last days, was the salvation of his friends, who had not yet come to know our Lord.
The service was a beautiful testimony of a man who loved his family and loved his friends so much that his greatest desire for his own ceremony, was that the Pastor preach a strong message about how real heaven and hell are.
In an almost pleading manner, the Pastor conveyed Stephen's heartfelt desire for his friends to turn away from the world's lies and embrace the truth of salvation. In fact, the story was told of one of the last days in the hospital, where a friend, who had come to visit Stephen and was told of salvation, made a trip back to the hospital to hear more about God. That friend was saved that night as he gave his heart to the Lord right there by the hospital bed.
That's what it's all about folks. Testifying with our last breath, that Jesus is Lord.
Please lift my friend Melinda and her two children up to the Lord. May the Prince of Peace be her constant companion.
Amen.
The very first year of Ted's "schooling" - on the very first day - we heard our cat crying outside the front door. Upon our investigation we found that our cat was standing over a baby squirrel that had, evidently, fallen from a nearby tree. And so began our Kindergarten year. We rescued, fed, and later found a home for our little orphaned friend named "Acorn".
Every year since then, I have faithfully prepared for the first day of school, as well as the first day back, after the holidays, only to have "life" happen, almost every time.
Today was no different.
Today there was a funeral.
A friend who was in his early 30's, lost his battle with cancer. His testimony was strong, up until the last minute, and that was so evident by the packed sanctuary today. Stephen's greatest desire and concern, even as he struggled to breath in his last days, was the salvation of his friends, who had not yet come to know our Lord.
The service was a beautiful testimony of a man who loved his family and loved his friends so much that his greatest desire for his own ceremony, was that the Pastor preach a strong message about how real heaven and hell are.
In an almost pleading manner, the Pastor conveyed Stephen's heartfelt desire for his friends to turn away from the world's lies and embrace the truth of salvation. In fact, the story was told of one of the last days in the hospital, where a friend, who had come to visit Stephen and was told of salvation, made a trip back to the hospital to hear more about God. That friend was saved that night as he gave his heart to the Lord right there by the hospital bed.
That's what it's all about folks. Testifying with our last breath, that Jesus is Lord.
Please lift my friend Melinda and her two children up to the Lord. May the Prince of Peace be her constant companion.
Amen.
Who Are You Dancing For?
In my latest Bible study, "Make Over" by Jen Hatmaker, she asks the question "Who are you dancing for?"
As women we have many roles we are trying to fill. Some are God-given, some are self-driven. Either way, we place ourselves before an audience. It most likely is an audience made up of our husband and kids. If you work, then it's your co-workers. If you have friends, they are sometimes your audience.
The audience is the group you strive to please. The audience is who you struggle to perform in front of. Is it the ladies in your Bible Study class, your Sunday school class, the gym, the PTA? Wherever they are - the ones you strive to please - that is your audience.
The Israelites danced around an altar, trying to get Baal's attention, to no avail. (1 Kings 18:26-29). They shouted, cut themselves, and shouted some more, but their audience was not listening. They were performing for nothing - no reward - because their audience was not the giver of rewards.
Ladies, if you are dancing for anyone other than the Audience of One, you are a dancing monkey, as Jen says. Quit performing to please an audience.
The only audience you need to please is God. He is the almighty giver of rewards and He is the only one who can fill the need to be seen.
Who are you dancing for today?
As women we have many roles we are trying to fill. Some are God-given, some are self-driven. Either way, we place ourselves before an audience. It most likely is an audience made up of our husband and kids. If you work, then it's your co-workers. If you have friends, they are sometimes your audience.
The audience is the group you strive to please. The audience is who you struggle to perform in front of. Is it the ladies in your Bible Study class, your Sunday school class, the gym, the PTA? Wherever they are - the ones you strive to please - that is your audience.
The Israelites danced around an altar, trying to get Baal's attention, to no avail. (1 Kings 18:26-29). They shouted, cut themselves, and shouted some more, but their audience was not listening. They were performing for nothing - no reward - because their audience was not the giver of rewards.
Ladies, if you are dancing for anyone other than the Audience of One, you are a dancing monkey, as Jen says. Quit performing to please an audience.
The only audience you need to please is God. He is the almighty giver of rewards and He is the only one who can fill the need to be seen.
Who are you dancing for today?
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Containers and New Beginnings
Well, it's one of my favorite times of the year - a new beginning. I love beginnings - Mondays, new Bible studies, new books, and anything else that is fresh and new.
So far, this new beginning has been very productive. While David's been off for the holidays, he has managed to complete our new bath/closet/washroom, all except the trim. The trim has to be painted and since it's a chilly "below freezing" for the rest of the week, that won't be happening.
Today I get to go out and buy a bunch of containers - which happen to be one of my favorite items to buy - ever. I am a container junkie! I actually get made fun of by all the men in my house, because of how much I love containers and organizing. What do they know? I won't even go into what their personal spaces look like!
I'm especially happy about a little decision I made concerning the laundry. Now that I have a semi-washroom, I am putting a shelf right above the washer and dryer where I will have four baskets with cute little name tags hanging off. As I pull the clothes out of the dryer, they will be put into each person's basket and taken to the room of said persons, to be emptied by that person and returned to mom by the next wash day. Now that thrills me! I'm easily entertained!
I am most happy for David, due to the fact that for all the years we've lived in this little farmhouse, he has had his clothes in several different closets. In the mornings he would have to go to an armoire for his pants, another closet for a shirt, his chest of drawers for socks and other essentials. Now, he has everything hanging and organized, and today we will be outfitting his side of the closet with drawers and baskets so he can have his "essentials" in there as well.
This is a double pleasure, because we will be able to remove his armoire and chest from our very small bedroom, which will leave us some very needed space.
The problem with old houses (shall I say "ONE of the problems") is that the rooms are small and closet space is limited to the size of one of your feet. But, that topic would need to go on another post one day titled "all the things you want to know before falling in love with an old house." Don't have time for that one today!
So......if I can make myself get up and out into this frosty weather (how do you stand it JOYCE?), I will be off to Curves for my workout, and on to buying containers!
Have a wonderful day!
Debbie
So far, this new beginning has been very productive. While David's been off for the holidays, he has managed to complete our new bath/closet/washroom, all except the trim. The trim has to be painted and since it's a chilly "below freezing" for the rest of the week, that won't be happening.
Today I get to go out and buy a bunch of containers - which happen to be one of my favorite items to buy - ever. I am a container junkie! I actually get made fun of by all the men in my house, because of how much I love containers and organizing. What do they know? I won't even go into what their personal spaces look like!
I'm especially happy about a little decision I made concerning the laundry. Now that I have a semi-washroom, I am putting a shelf right above the washer and dryer where I will have four baskets with cute little name tags hanging off. As I pull the clothes out of the dryer, they will be put into each person's basket and taken to the room of said persons, to be emptied by that person and returned to mom by the next wash day. Now that thrills me! I'm easily entertained!
I am most happy for David, due to the fact that for all the years we've lived in this little farmhouse, he has had his clothes in several different closets. In the mornings he would have to go to an armoire for his pants, another closet for a shirt, his chest of drawers for socks and other essentials. Now, he has everything hanging and organized, and today we will be outfitting his side of the closet with drawers and baskets so he can have his "essentials" in there as well.
This is a double pleasure, because we will be able to remove his armoire and chest from our very small bedroom, which will leave us some very needed space.
The problem with old houses (shall I say "ONE of the problems") is that the rooms are small and closet space is limited to the size of one of your feet. But, that topic would need to go on another post one day titled "all the things you want to know before falling in love with an old house." Don't have time for that one today!
So......if I can make myself get up and out into this frosty weather (how do you stand it JOYCE?), I will be off to Curves for my workout, and on to buying containers!
Have a wonderful day!
Debbie
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Happy New Year!
We had a great New Year's Day. David cooked hamburgers on the grill and I threw together a pasta salad and had our guests bring chips and desserts. We had David's parents over and a few cousins and just had a nice relaxing day.
After lunch I made everyone come out onto the front porch and take pictures. After printing out the Christmas day photos, I realized that there was not even one picture of me!! There were plenty of video shots, due to David thinking it's funny to follow me around with that stupid camera. However, not one photo of me.
David, me, Collin, and Ted
Ted and Carolyn (David's parents)
CousinsThe great thing was, that after we took the pictures I got out my little HP Photo printer and was able to print each family a set of pictures to take home right away. That is a time saver! Before I had this nifty little gadget, I would get double prints of pictures I wanted to share and have to remember to mail them or somehow remember to pull them out the next time I saw that person. I love that little machine!
Later David and I finally took Collin to see the "Alvin and the Chipmunks" movie. We had been promising to take him, but the days kept going by and we kept running out of time. Boy! A movie and a few snacks will break your budget for the week! Ted had to work for a few hours then spent some time with a friend. We tried to get him to go to the movies with us, but he wasn't interested in the chipmunks. Can't imagine why not!
Today I am so excited! Collin is going to play with his cousin and David and I are going to shop for the new bathroom!! We have a sink and countertop to buy, carpet for the closet, shelving, and much more to get. This is the part I love - the decorating part!
David has nearly killed himself this week getting that bathroom finished. Thankfully he still has a few more days off (until Wednesday), so he can take his time and pace himself for the rest of the work that needs to be done.
I had it scheduled to start school Monday, but with David off and around the house, it makes it really hard for the kids and I to follow our routine. The gov't schools start on Tuesday and Wednesday, so I might wait and start on Wednesday too.
Well, the year is moving by - we're already on day 2! Make the most of it!
Until next time......
Debbie
Friday, January 1, 2010
First Thoughts of 2010
It's official - we're boring. Yep. All around the country people were celebrating; going all out with food and fellowship, and there we were, watching tv on the couch.
I had to MAKE myself stay up until midnight. Almost lost it around 11:00 when the restless legs kicked in. Took a little snooze on the couch, then woke up about 11:30, disappointed to realize I still had 30 more minutes.
What's wrong with us??
That's my first goal for 2010 is to plan something fun for New Year's Eve next year.
Actually, that was one of my goals for 2009 - to celebrate events in a bigger fashion. Guess I didn't meet that goal (except for Ted's 16th b-day party).
Can't even remember what my other goals were. Must not have met those either. Oh well. Thankfully I have a loving, gracious, Heavenly Father, who gives me more chances than I deserve.
My goals for this year?
Get in better shape (if it sounds different, maybe it will happen (not saying "lose weight")
Keep a better schedule (daily routine)
Pay off debt
Celebrate bigger
Grow spiritually (always a goal)
And a few others that are being prayed about but not spoken outloud
David and I were just talking last night about the excitement of living with God. You never know what He's up to or where He will take you. I've learned over the years to never dig my heals in and say "this is where I'm staying" because, as sure as you do, God will pack you up and move you. It may not be a physical move, across the country, but it will be a move to grow you and turn your heart more toward HIM.
Do you have your goals set yet for 2010? If so, please share! I want to know that I'm not the only one who needs improvement!
Happy 2010 everyone!
I had to MAKE myself stay up until midnight. Almost lost it around 11:00 when the restless legs kicked in. Took a little snooze on the couch, then woke up about 11:30, disappointed to realize I still had 30 more minutes.
What's wrong with us??
That's my first goal for 2010 is to plan something fun for New Year's Eve next year.
Actually, that was one of my goals for 2009 - to celebrate events in a bigger fashion. Guess I didn't meet that goal (except for Ted's 16th b-day party).
Can't even remember what my other goals were. Must not have met those either. Oh well. Thankfully I have a loving, gracious, Heavenly Father, who gives me more chances than I deserve.
My goals for this year?
Get in better shape (if it sounds different, maybe it will happen (not saying "lose weight")
Keep a better schedule (daily routine)
Pay off debt
Celebrate bigger
Grow spiritually (always a goal)
And a few others that are being prayed about but not spoken outloud
David and I were just talking last night about the excitement of living with God. You never know what He's up to or where He will take you. I've learned over the years to never dig my heals in and say "this is where I'm staying" because, as sure as you do, God will pack you up and move you. It may not be a physical move, across the country, but it will be a move to grow you and turn your heart more toward HIM.
Do you have your goals set yet for 2010? If so, please share! I want to know that I'm not the only one who needs improvement!
Happy 2010 everyone!
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