Since my lazy day.........
That afternoon Collin and I watched a movie together (Journey to the Center of the Earth), which was really nice. Sometimes you just need a lazy day.
Wednesday we had a few friends over after lunch, which is always one of my favorite past times. It's always nice to visit with other moms, when you don't have to combine it with a meeting or other activities. We sat on the front porch for a few hours and just talked nutrition and other things.
Thursday David was home and he and the boys tackled another house project that has been on the list for a while - putting a beadboard ceiling on our front porch. They are finishing that up today. It's good to see all three of them out there working as a team. I feel a little guilty being in the cool house while they're working outside. But - someone has to wash their dirty clothes and fix the meals. I guess it might as well be me!
I took advantage of David being here yesterday, and went shopping! It was really nice to get out for a while and just take my time, looking for things I need (and some I don't). I'm on a real book kick right now. Books have always been one of my passions, but it's like I've gone out of control lately. I finally had to make myself a book "wishlist" because, just about every day, I think of another book I want.
I was planning on having lunch with a cousin yesterday, so I was just finishing my shopping when I ran into Bath and Body for some handsoap. I think I've written about this before, but I've actually compared cheaper handsoap with B&B's soap, and there is no comparison. I can pay $2.00 or more for the cheap stuff or $3.00 for the good stuff, that doesn't run through your fingers like water.
ANYWAY - I quickly grabbed several bottles of soap, got to the counter to pay, looked up and saw a poster behind the counter - a huge poster - of a naked girl! Yes, all the strategic parts were covered, but she was naked - completely!
Well, picture the cartoon character with steam coming out of his ears - and you will know what I looked like at that moment. I'm sure my face was beet red also. I began to tell the cashier how mad I was and how offensive I found that poster to be. Of course, she was very polite about it, but I know they have no say-so over what the corporate people do. Well, it just so happened that the District manager was in the store! So on my way out, I stopped and let him know how offended I was and that if I would have had my 11 year old son with me, I wouldn't have bought a thing. I also let him know that I would not be buying anything, from then on, until the poster was removed. He was very polite and said he would pass the info on to corporate, but we all know how that goes.
When I got home, I also emailed their corporate office and told them to get rid of the porn or I would be letting everyone I know, not to buy from them.
I might not have had any impact on the store, but then again, at least I can say that I didn't just pass up the opportunity.
Ladies, this world is slipping further and further down the slope! I truly want the world back that regards modesty as something to be treasured, not mocked. I want the world back that doesn't shove sex and porn down our throats, every chance it gets. I want to be able to walk with my boys and not be embarrassed at the filth that bombards them at every turn. I have to admit, I'm getting weary!
Today is more laundry, then out to Gator Country to eat dinner. Oh! If you have the CMT channel on cable or satellite, you can see Gator Country on Gator911. That is filmed right here in SouthEast Texas. Gator Country is the restaurant and park that is owned by the guy on Gator 911. No - I will not be eating "gator". I will have something normal like chicken or beef!
I hope everyone has a great Friday!
Until next time......
Blessings!
Friday, April 30, 2010
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
My Lazy Day
What am I doing on this computer today? I'm almost positive there are 393 other things I should be doing or working on! The problem is, I'm enjoying being lazy today!
You know - sometimes you just don't feel like buzzing around the house, organizing, cleaning, cooking, washing, teaching, etc.
Sometimes you just feel like watching the episode of DWTS that you missed last night (but recorded), and eating a handful of almonds, and folding a little laundry (from yesterday), and looking up someone interesting on Wikipedia, writing a few emails, reading a few blogs, and then relaxing with a good book.
Anything wrong with that?
But seriously - I do have a serious question to throw out at everyone:
Do you have one child who continually wants to wear the same shirt anytime he's out in public, but has an entire closet filled with other nice shirts?
One of these days, that shirt will mysteriously go missing!
Until next time......
Be blessed!
You know - sometimes you just don't feel like buzzing around the house, organizing, cleaning, cooking, washing, teaching, etc.
Sometimes you just feel like watching the episode of DWTS that you missed last night (but recorded), and eating a handful of almonds, and folding a little laundry (from yesterday), and looking up someone interesting on Wikipedia, writing a few emails, reading a few blogs, and then relaxing with a good book.
Anything wrong with that?
But seriously - I do have a serious question to throw out at everyone:
Do you have one child who continually wants to wear the same shirt anytime he's out in public, but has an entire closet filled with other nice shirts?
One of these days, that shirt will mysteriously go missing!
Until next time......
Be blessed!
Sunday, April 25, 2010
A Great Weekend
As busy as this past week was - the weekend was just as busy.
Friday our support group had a planning meeting for next year. We have a small co-op that grows a little bigger every year. We had a great meeting at the park, even though it started pouring down rain while we were there. Thankfully, there is one covered area with a large picnic table and a few benches. The kids didn't let the rain stop them from playing.
We were able to brainstorm about some ideas for the older kids' class for next year. We also added some additional activities to the list for the weeks that we don't have classes.
Overall, I'm excited about the upcoming year and the friendships that are being formed in this group.
Saturday we headed to Houston for the South Texas Fine Arts Youth Competition. This is a nationwide competition that takes place within individual regions (ours being South Texas), then moves on to the Nationals, which will be held in Detroit this year.
The church that Ted plays for on Wed. and Thurs. nights has a Fine Arts Program that allows kids to participate and compete in areas they are talented in. Some of the areas are dance, worship bands, christian bands, human video, sign language, short sermons, solo performance (vocal) and poetry.
The kids spend the year preparing for their event and then go to the competition to compete against other churches and individuals from the region. There were churches from all over South Texas competing.
Each group or individual performs for a group of judges and receives a score from each judge. Ted's group scored 39, 38, 38, out of 40's. This was the highest score received in the worship band category! They won first place! We are so proud of them!
The next step is the National competition in Detroit sometime at the end of the summer. I don't know the details yet.
Here are some pictures from the day:
The band Bldg 4
Ted
Bldg 4 receiving their award
Friday our support group had a planning meeting for next year. We have a small co-op that grows a little bigger every year. We had a great meeting at the park, even though it started pouring down rain while we were there. Thankfully, there is one covered area with a large picnic table and a few benches. The kids didn't let the rain stop them from playing.
We were able to brainstorm about some ideas for the older kids' class for next year. We also added some additional activities to the list for the weeks that we don't have classes.
Overall, I'm excited about the upcoming year and the friendships that are being formed in this group.
Saturday we headed to Houston for the South Texas Fine Arts Youth Competition. This is a nationwide competition that takes place within individual regions (ours being South Texas), then moves on to the Nationals, which will be held in Detroit this year.
The church that Ted plays for on Wed. and Thurs. nights has a Fine Arts Program that allows kids to participate and compete in areas they are talented in. Some of the areas are dance, worship bands, christian bands, human video, sign language, short sermons, solo performance (vocal) and poetry.
The kids spend the year preparing for their event and then go to the competition to compete against other churches and individuals from the region. There were churches from all over South Texas competing.
Each group or individual performs for a group of judges and receives a score from each judge. Ted's group scored 39, 38, 38, out of 40's. This was the highest score received in the worship band category! They won first place! We are so proud of them!
The next step is the National competition in Detroit sometime at the end of the summer. I don't know the details yet.
Here are some pictures from the day:
The band Bldg 4
Ted
Bldg 4 receiving their award
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Talking Donkey - Part 2
So.........part 2 of my previous (very long) post:
After we get the news about the math requirements, Ted just totally shuts down at the thought of being faced with another 3 semesters of math. It's one of his weakest subjects and one of the reasons we are in this position.
Ok, hs moms - here is where guilt starts setting in: we should have done more in math. If I would have pushed him harder, made him do something different, gotten a tutor, blah, blah, blah ......you get the picture. Now we're at this junction of his life and everything hinges on this one subject.
We obviously had alot to talk over, so we tell Mr. Cardboard "thanks" and we head to the car. Now we have some serious decisions to make. Enter more guilt.
I, being his teacher, advisor, biggest fan, etc. have been pushing Ted to finish early. I knew he was sick of the academics and ready to move on to his music studies, so I pushed him to graduate early and move on to the fun stuff. Here's what I've accomplished with that:
my son feels extremely pressured
he's anxious about going to the college campus
he's not ready - mathwise
he's not ready to be in that phase of life
I've made a mistake.
So, while Ted was at church last night, David and I discussed all of this and decided to take another year to focus on math, let Ted continue to be a kid, hold off on graduation, and slow down.
Sometimes you have to remove the choices from the child, so they can relax and just be a child. We're at that point.
As I'm writing this, Ted is still asleep and doesn't even know we've made this decision for him. I will be talking with him later today.
So why the talking donkey? If you're familiar with the story of Balaam's donkey (Numbers 22:21-41), you'll recall that Balaam kept going the wrong way and God was using the donkey to redirect him. Unfortunately, Balaam wasn't listening very well and kept beating the donkey and going the wrong way. God finally opened the donkey's mouth to to make Balaam see that what he was doing was wrong.
I feel like Balaam. I'm pretty sure I've been heading in the wrong direction, yet, for some reason, kept going. I've have felt hesitation at times about sending Ted to college so early, but kept moving forward with the plan. There have even been obstacles, but not big enough to derail us, so I just moved on.
I need a donkey! I want a donkey! Oh, how I would love for God to open my eyes, when I am not seeing what He wants me to see. Before I go too far. Maybe that's what's happening now.
So.....I'm closing the book on graduating early. Closing the book on college for this next year. Opening the senior year, of my first pupil, back up and actually looking forward to one more year of learning with Ted. I'll be on a quest for the very best Algebra program homeschooling has to offer.
In the meantime, I'll be looking closer for angels standing in the road and talking animals. I don't want to miss anything God is trying to tell me!
After we get the news about the math requirements, Ted just totally shuts down at the thought of being faced with another 3 semesters of math. It's one of his weakest subjects and one of the reasons we are in this position.
Ok, hs moms - here is where guilt starts setting in: we should have done more in math. If I would have pushed him harder, made him do something different, gotten a tutor, blah, blah, blah ......you get the picture. Now we're at this junction of his life and everything hinges on this one subject.
We obviously had alot to talk over, so we tell Mr. Cardboard "thanks" and we head to the car. Now we have some serious decisions to make. Enter more guilt.
I, being his teacher, advisor, biggest fan, etc. have been pushing Ted to finish early. I knew he was sick of the academics and ready to move on to his music studies, so I pushed him to graduate early and move on to the fun stuff. Here's what I've accomplished with that:
my son feels extremely pressured
he's anxious about going to the college campus
he's not ready - mathwise
he's not ready to be in that phase of life
I've made a mistake.
So, while Ted was at church last night, David and I discussed all of this and decided to take another year to focus on math, let Ted continue to be a kid, hold off on graduation, and slow down.
Sometimes you have to remove the choices from the child, so they can relax and just be a child. We're at that point.
As I'm writing this, Ted is still asleep and doesn't even know we've made this decision for him. I will be talking with him later today.
So why the talking donkey? If you're familiar with the story of Balaam's donkey (Numbers 22:21-41), you'll recall that Balaam kept going the wrong way and God was using the donkey to redirect him. Unfortunately, Balaam wasn't listening very well and kept beating the donkey and going the wrong way. God finally opened the donkey's mouth to to make Balaam see that what he was doing was wrong.
I feel like Balaam. I'm pretty sure I've been heading in the wrong direction, yet, for some reason, kept going. I've have felt hesitation at times about sending Ted to college so early, but kept moving forward with the plan. There have even been obstacles, but not big enough to derail us, so I just moved on.
I need a donkey! I want a donkey! Oh, how I would love for God to open my eyes, when I am not seeing what He wants me to see. Before I go too far. Maybe that's what's happening now.
So.....I'm closing the book on graduating early. Closing the book on college for this next year. Opening the senior year, of my first pupil, back up and actually looking forward to one more year of learning with Ted. I'll be on a quest for the very best Algebra program homeschooling has to offer.
In the meantime, I'll be looking closer for angels standing in the road and talking animals. I don't want to miss anything God is trying to tell me!
I Need A Talking Donkey
Do you remember the story in the Bible about the talking donkey? Well, I need one!
Don't you just wish that God would still do things like that? You know, talk to you from a bush, a donkey, or just before you're about to do something stupid? I think that would be awesome and it would save us a lot of time and trouble.
What's going on this week?
I've been sick since Sunday with allergies/cold and yet, it's been the busiest week I've had in a long time.
My plan this week was to take care of college registration for Ted. Well, Monday I could barely breath and felt horrible, so that day was out. That pushed it onto Tuesday's to-do list, which already had enough on it's agenda. David was having his annual company "fun day" that afternoon, which started at 2pm. So that just left us the morning to drive to the campus, which is 30 miles away, take a 2-3 hour test, plus (hopefully) take care of registration.
I packed up Collin's school work, packed up Ted's file for college, packed up the kids, and we headed out. While Ted was taking his college entrance exam, Collin and I went to a nearby bakery, grabbed some food and sat and did school. Keep in mind that I can't breath through my nose, I feel horrible, but I'm trying to do all of this, when I really just wanted to be at home. I'm sure I was great company!
Ted finished his test but was starving by that time, so we decided to come back home and do the registration part the next day. We got home, had about 30 minutes to spare before having to turn around and head to the office party. The kids like to go because it's on the local riverfront and there are usually boat rides. Thankfully, I had bought some Advil Cold/Allergy medicine, which is the best for drying me up, and I could actually breath while I was there.
So, come Wednesday, it's time to pack up again and head to the college for registration, but.......that morning David (my local City Councilman) informs me that there will be a celebration lunch at the new City Hall that the city is building, and he would like us to meet him there for lunch. You're kidding, right? Well, that turned out to my advantage, because I made a deal with him. "We'll meet you there for lunch if you can take Collin back to the office, while Ted and I go back to the college."
Yep. That worked out. So I packed up Collin's backpack and sent him off to work with David, while Ted and I headed south. (This is a long story and it has a point.)
We get to the school, sign in to see an advisor and wait. When our name is called - what do you know - we get the one guy who couldn't care less if we're there or not! He's about as lethargic as cardboard and talks so low (and my ears are stopped up) that I'm literally leaning into his desk, trying to keep up with what he's mumbling!
He tells us that Ted did great on the writing part and english part of the test - making college level scores (yay Ted)! However, the fear of every homeschooling mom comes true when he says, "you didn't score well in Math". UGGGGG! Not that I was surprised. I've been here for all the math drama, so I expected this. What I didn't expect was that Ted would be forced to take 2 entry level algebras, with no credits given, before he could take the regular college algebra, that is required for all degree plans. That means an entire year spent - timewise and moneywise - yet receiving no credit for those classes.
Now we had some decisions to make.
Tune in next post to hear how it all turns out..........
Don't you just wish that God would still do things like that? You know, talk to you from a bush, a donkey, or just before you're about to do something stupid? I think that would be awesome and it would save us a lot of time and trouble.
What's going on this week?
I've been sick since Sunday with allergies/cold and yet, it's been the busiest week I've had in a long time.
My plan this week was to take care of college registration for Ted. Well, Monday I could barely breath and felt horrible, so that day was out. That pushed it onto Tuesday's to-do list, which already had enough on it's agenda. David was having his annual company "fun day" that afternoon, which started at 2pm. So that just left us the morning to drive to the campus, which is 30 miles away, take a 2-3 hour test, plus (hopefully) take care of registration.
I packed up Collin's school work, packed up Ted's file for college, packed up the kids, and we headed out. While Ted was taking his college entrance exam, Collin and I went to a nearby bakery, grabbed some food and sat and did school. Keep in mind that I can't breath through my nose, I feel horrible, but I'm trying to do all of this, when I really just wanted to be at home. I'm sure I was great company!
Ted finished his test but was starving by that time, so we decided to come back home and do the registration part the next day. We got home, had about 30 minutes to spare before having to turn around and head to the office party. The kids like to go because it's on the local riverfront and there are usually boat rides. Thankfully, I had bought some Advil Cold/Allergy medicine, which is the best for drying me up, and I could actually breath while I was there.
So, come Wednesday, it's time to pack up again and head to the college for registration, but.......that morning David (my local City Councilman) informs me that there will be a celebration lunch at the new City Hall that the city is building, and he would like us to meet him there for lunch. You're kidding, right? Well, that turned out to my advantage, because I made a deal with him. "We'll meet you there for lunch if you can take Collin back to the office, while Ted and I go back to the college."
Yep. That worked out. So I packed up Collin's backpack and sent him off to work with David, while Ted and I headed south. (This is a long story and it has a point.)
We get to the school, sign in to see an advisor and wait. When our name is called - what do you know - we get the one guy who couldn't care less if we're there or not! He's about as lethargic as cardboard and talks so low (and my ears are stopped up) that I'm literally leaning into his desk, trying to keep up with what he's mumbling!
He tells us that Ted did great on the writing part and english part of the test - making college level scores (yay Ted)! However, the fear of every homeschooling mom comes true when he says, "you didn't score well in Math". UGGGGG! Not that I was surprised. I've been here for all the math drama, so I expected this. What I didn't expect was that Ted would be forced to take 2 entry level algebras, with no credits given, before he could take the regular college algebra, that is required for all degree plans. That means an entire year spent - timewise and moneywise - yet receiving no credit for those classes.
Now we had some decisions to make.
Tune in next post to hear how it all turns out..........
Monday, April 19, 2010
Book Review: Lonestar Homecoming
Colleen Coble's "Lonestar Homecoming" was a great read! From the first sentence Mrs. Coble grabs your interest with action.
Her main character, Gracie, is full of spunk, as she continually takes her life into her own hands. Unfortunately, since she has decided to shut God out of her life, she only has herself to rely on.
Gracie soon finds out that running from your troubles only brings more trouble, but she doesn't have the courage to face her past head on. That is, until a strong man comes into her life and teaches her that running is not the answer.
This book is full of action and really holds your interest. However, toward the end, the actions gets so tangled, in going from scene to scene, that it left me wanting a way out!
Finally, Gracie realizes she needs God back in her life, and only then, does she have the courage to face her biggest fears.
Overall, this book is a great one to add to your bookshelf.
Her main character, Gracie, is full of spunk, as she continually takes her life into her own hands. Unfortunately, since she has decided to shut God out of her life, she only has herself to rely on.
Gracie soon finds out that running from your troubles only brings more trouble, but she doesn't have the courage to face her past head on. That is, until a strong man comes into her life and teaches her that running is not the answer.
This book is full of action and really holds your interest. However, toward the end, the actions gets so tangled, in going from scene to scene, that it left me wanting a way out!
Finally, Gracie realizes she needs God back in her life, and only then, does she have the courage to face her biggest fears.
Overall, this book is a great one to add to your bookshelf.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
A Lot of New Things
I really should write everyday, even if I think it's boring stuff, because the longer I wait, the more I can't remember!
Let's see - since my last post:
David was out of town all last week (Mon.-Thurs.) which means I didn't have much sleep, which means I was dragging during the days.
We had a field trip on Thursday. We toured an old Basilica (St. Anthony's Cathedral in Beaumont). Such beautiful artistry and architecture. I never realized that there is a purpose behind each piece of art, whether it was a stained glass window, or mosaics in the flooring. Each piece of art has a purpose in the Catholic faith. I loved hearing about the pieces that came from other countries and imagining the care that had to be taken, to ensure their safe travel. For instance, the stained glass windows came from Germany. They have little artifacts and relics, which play an important part in being called a Basilica. There is too much to repeat here, but it was a very educational day.
Friday we had our monthly co-op day. It was really nice to sit and fellowship with so many moms who are living out this homeschooling journey. I love listening to each lady express her struggles and ways that she tackles this job. Every family is so different, which is how it's supposed to be! I never feel so good in a group of women as I do when I'm with other ladies who devote their time in this manner. Just as I don't relate to what other professions go through on a daily basis, no one can grasp the tasks of a homeschooling mom, unless you are living it - day in and day out!
I read a great quote this morning by Jill Savage which says: "We have the ministry of availability". In her book "Real Moms...Real Jesus" she says that we need to have goals, as Jesus did, but always be available for those interruptions that He places before us. Whether it's kids (and 101 questions throughout the day), or friends who call with a need, or any other opportunity to minister to someone. She says "ministry for Jesus was anyone standing in front of him." That is true for us, as well.
I think as homeschooling moms, we have an awesome opportunity to live out ministry right along side of our children. Instead of losing our minds when the schedule gets messed up, what would happen if we accept the opportunities to minister with grace? I know there have been times when I will have my schedule so perfectly orchestrated, that I get upset when it doesn't go as planned. What a shame! I have probably missed out on some awesome opportunities to be an encouragement to someone.
This is definitely an area where I want God to open my eyes and help me to recognize the needs around me.
On the book front:
I just finished reading "So You Don't Want to go to Church Anymore". This was a great book, written by Wayne Jacobsen. He was also a co-author for "The Shack".
There is no way I can put this book into a short review, but basically it tells of a man (a pastor) who comes face to face with the disciple John. This encounter helps him to see the danger in worshiping the institution of "church", more than Jesus.
The disciple points him to a more meaningful walk with the Lord, which has nothing to do with the confines of an organization.
This book spoke to my spirit on so many levels. So many Sundays I walk out of church, feeling empty, like there should be so much more. It seems that it's so contrived and fake sometimes, with people just going through the motions. People seem lifeless and robotic in their duties. Not that we're not a happy group of people, and I'm certainly not saying that their love for the Lord is not genuine, just that I get the feeling that alot of what goes on is out of duty and tradition, rather than true ministry.
I really can't put it into words here, for the sake of time, but if you've become disillusioned with just going to church for the sake of going, then this is a book worth reading. It helps put those feelings to words. I must add though, that home church is not his answer either (in this book) because that, too, can become about the organization, rather than true fellowship and ministry. Jesus was not confined to an institution; he ministered to the people along his journey. We need to be more about walking with him daily and less about creating institutions.
Last night my family experienced our first Passover Dinner. We were invited by some friends, who do this yearly, and much to my surprise, David agreed to go! I was surprised because he's not much on trying new things. I, on the other hand, love new things, so it was nice.
It was very informative, as the pastor explained the meanings behind several aspects leading up to the dinner. God really has a purpose for every single thing He does.
I'm looking forward to a week of opportunities. How about you?
In HIM,
Debbie
Let's see - since my last post:
David was out of town all last week (Mon.-Thurs.) which means I didn't have much sleep, which means I was dragging during the days.
We had a field trip on Thursday. We toured an old Basilica (St. Anthony's Cathedral in Beaumont). Such beautiful artistry and architecture. I never realized that there is a purpose behind each piece of art, whether it was a stained glass window, or mosaics in the flooring. Each piece of art has a purpose in the Catholic faith. I loved hearing about the pieces that came from other countries and imagining the care that had to be taken, to ensure their safe travel. For instance, the stained glass windows came from Germany. They have little artifacts and relics, which play an important part in being called a Basilica. There is too much to repeat here, but it was a very educational day.
Friday we had our monthly co-op day. It was really nice to sit and fellowship with so many moms who are living out this homeschooling journey. I love listening to each lady express her struggles and ways that she tackles this job. Every family is so different, which is how it's supposed to be! I never feel so good in a group of women as I do when I'm with other ladies who devote their time in this manner. Just as I don't relate to what other professions go through on a daily basis, no one can grasp the tasks of a homeschooling mom, unless you are living it - day in and day out!
I read a great quote this morning by Jill Savage which says: "We have the ministry of availability". In her book "Real Moms...Real Jesus" she says that we need to have goals, as Jesus did, but always be available for those interruptions that He places before us. Whether it's kids (and 101 questions throughout the day), or friends who call with a need, or any other opportunity to minister to someone. She says "ministry for Jesus was anyone standing in front of him." That is true for us, as well.
I think as homeschooling moms, we have an awesome opportunity to live out ministry right along side of our children. Instead of losing our minds when the schedule gets messed up, what would happen if we accept the opportunities to minister with grace? I know there have been times when I will have my schedule so perfectly orchestrated, that I get upset when it doesn't go as planned. What a shame! I have probably missed out on some awesome opportunities to be an encouragement to someone.
This is definitely an area where I want God to open my eyes and help me to recognize the needs around me.
On the book front:
I just finished reading "So You Don't Want to go to Church Anymore". This was a great book, written by Wayne Jacobsen. He was also a co-author for "The Shack".
There is no way I can put this book into a short review, but basically it tells of a man (a pastor) who comes face to face with the disciple John. This encounter helps him to see the danger in worshiping the institution of "church", more than Jesus.
The disciple points him to a more meaningful walk with the Lord, which has nothing to do with the confines of an organization.
This book spoke to my spirit on so many levels. So many Sundays I walk out of church, feeling empty, like there should be so much more. It seems that it's so contrived and fake sometimes, with people just going through the motions. People seem lifeless and robotic in their duties. Not that we're not a happy group of people, and I'm certainly not saying that their love for the Lord is not genuine, just that I get the feeling that alot of what goes on is out of duty and tradition, rather than true ministry.
I really can't put it into words here, for the sake of time, but if you've become disillusioned with just going to church for the sake of going, then this is a book worth reading. It helps put those feelings to words. I must add though, that home church is not his answer either (in this book) because that, too, can become about the organization, rather than true fellowship and ministry. Jesus was not confined to an institution; he ministered to the people along his journey. We need to be more about walking with him daily and less about creating institutions.
Last night my family experienced our first Passover Dinner. We were invited by some friends, who do this yearly, and much to my surprise, David agreed to go! I was surprised because he's not much on trying new things. I, on the other hand, love new things, so it was nice.
It was very informative, as the pastor explained the meanings behind several aspects leading up to the dinner. God really has a purpose for every single thing He does.
I'm looking forward to a week of opportunities. How about you?
In HIM,
Debbie
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
What Do You Read?
I love to read!
I have books stashed all over the house:
On my desk in the livingroom
On my night stand
In the bathroom
On the dry sink in the dining room
In the kitchen
And.....
I always take a book with me in the car for those pesky traffic jams!
I read while I'm sitting down for lunch (the kids are usually taking some time to themselves, as well)
I read in the morning, after my Bible Study and prayer time. This time is reserved for books that are spiritual in nature, such as testimonies or devotional type books.
I read while I'm cooking (waiting on water to boil, meat to brown, etc. I've learned that this is much safer than walking away to take care of something else, and forgetting that something is on the stove!) Many times I save this time for reading healthy cooking books or books about health. I keep them in a cabinet and pull them out while I'm cooking.
I read for the last few minutes before my eyes close at bedtime.
I read in the bathroom, when I'm not being interrupted by knocking on the door.
I also have moods of reading. In other words, I usually have one fiction book going, as well as a spiritual type book. When I'm in "school mode" and want to give myself some "continuing education" I read books about homeschooling and types of learning, curriculum, etc.
Add that to the various magazines around the house and the health books in the kitchen, and I would say I am getting a fairly, well rounded amount of material.
I can't imagine my life without books. I hear people say they don't like to read and it's something I have to strive to process, because it's so far from the way that I am. But, I know that everyone is different. There are many passions that I hear of that I can't imagine myself spending time on (sports - for one).
What do you like to read? Are books a passion or a burden to you?
If you write down your thoughts, I promise to read them!
I have books stashed all over the house:
On my desk in the livingroom
On my night stand
In the bathroom
On the dry sink in the dining room
In the kitchen
And.....
I always take a book with me in the car for those pesky traffic jams!
I read while I'm sitting down for lunch (the kids are usually taking some time to themselves, as well)
I read in the morning, after my Bible Study and prayer time. This time is reserved for books that are spiritual in nature, such as testimonies or devotional type books.
I read while I'm cooking (waiting on water to boil, meat to brown, etc. I've learned that this is much safer than walking away to take care of something else, and forgetting that something is on the stove!) Many times I save this time for reading healthy cooking books or books about health. I keep them in a cabinet and pull them out while I'm cooking.
I read for the last few minutes before my eyes close at bedtime.
I read in the bathroom, when I'm not being interrupted by knocking on the door.
I also have moods of reading. In other words, I usually have one fiction book going, as well as a spiritual type book. When I'm in "school mode" and want to give myself some "continuing education" I read books about homeschooling and types of learning, curriculum, etc.
Add that to the various magazines around the house and the health books in the kitchen, and I would say I am getting a fairly, well rounded amount of material.
I can't imagine my life without books. I hear people say they don't like to read and it's something I have to strive to process, because it's so far from the way that I am. But, I know that everyone is different. There are many passions that I hear of that I can't imagine myself spending time on (sports - for one).
What do you like to read? Are books a passion or a burden to you?
If you write down your thoughts, I promise to read them!
On the School Front
On the school front:
Do you ever surprise yourself with stupidity? I do!
More than I care to admit, when it comes to choosing school curriculum!
I always buy my "next year's" curriculum around this time. Sometimes we will even start some of it and work slowly through the summer - a few days a week - just to keep our brains in the learning mode.
So......thinking about several factors such as: not having to teach Ted next year (just Collin) and wanting to do things a little different with Collin, than I did with Ted, I decided to try out the Bob Jones curriculum on DVD.
Here's where stupid comes in:
I had given these a try several years back and didn't do such a great job with them. Problem is, I forgot all the things about them that annoyed me, so I ordered them again for next year. Stupid! We got them in the mail a few weeks ago (4 boxes worth!) and started using a few of the subjects. Talk about high maintenance!
I won't explain all the annoyances (unless someone wants to know for future consideration), but let's just say this curriculum takes longer to organize than if I just made out my own lesson plans and did my own thing. And, besides that - who needs 10 teachers manuals for 8 subjects, several separate test packets, activity books, plus text books, plus workbooks for each subject? NOT ME!
You know that "little voice" inside your head that tells you NOT to do something? Guess what? I heard that little voice and told him to be quiet and ordered all that stuff anyway. Know where that got me? To the post office yesterday - sending it all back!!!
So - if I would have listened to my little voice a few months ago, I would have left Collin doing what he's been doing - Switched on Schoolhouse - because it really works for him and he's doing great with it - and saved myself some trouble (and extra shipping cost).
Live and learn!
Debbie
Do you ever surprise yourself with stupidity? I do!
More than I care to admit, when it comes to choosing school curriculum!
I always buy my "next year's" curriculum around this time. Sometimes we will even start some of it and work slowly through the summer - a few days a week - just to keep our brains in the learning mode.
So......thinking about several factors such as: not having to teach Ted next year (just Collin) and wanting to do things a little different with Collin, than I did with Ted, I decided to try out the Bob Jones curriculum on DVD.
Here's where stupid comes in:
I had given these a try several years back and didn't do such a great job with them. Problem is, I forgot all the things about them that annoyed me, so I ordered them again for next year. Stupid! We got them in the mail a few weeks ago (4 boxes worth!) and started using a few of the subjects. Talk about high maintenance!
I won't explain all the annoyances (unless someone wants to know for future consideration), but let's just say this curriculum takes longer to organize than if I just made out my own lesson plans and did my own thing. And, besides that - who needs 10 teachers manuals for 8 subjects, several separate test packets, activity books, plus text books, plus workbooks for each subject? NOT ME!
You know that "little voice" inside your head that tells you NOT to do something? Guess what? I heard that little voice and told him to be quiet and ordered all that stuff anyway. Know where that got me? To the post office yesterday - sending it all back!!!
So - if I would have listened to my little voice a few months ago, I would have left Collin doing what he's been doing - Switched on Schoolhouse - because it really works for him and he's doing great with it - and saved myself some trouble (and extra shipping cost).
Live and learn!
Debbie
Lately
Lately at our house:
Last week started off with Art class on Monday. Kind of different since it's usually at the end of the week. However, it was a great class. One of the ladies in our homeschool group opens her home to all of us and Monday there were 17 kids plus moms! She sits the kids down in the livingroom and explains the type of art they'll be doing, then they move to the kitchen/dining room to work.
The lesson for that week was " clay sculpture"! There's probably no way I can adequately paint the scene for you, but picture this: 17 kids at the kitchen table and bar - wet clay, newspaper, buckets of water - and did I mention - 17 KIDS?!
Here they are (Collin in the red shirt)
creating the figure or bust out of newspaper and tape first.
Collin's bust is the head of SpongeBob
(so fitting)
(notice the clay all over the tablecloth and hands)
This woman is brave! And.....we all have to go back for one more round - the painting of the sculptures! Some people TRULY have the gift of hospitality!
On Friday David was off work so I was able to have a little time to myself. I had a great morning with one of my best friends. We had breakfast and coffee at Cracker Barrel, then off to Joanne's Fabric store, looking for Easter items and other things, headed over to LifeWay and found some great scrapbooks for about $2.00 (on clearance). That was the highlight of our day! She took off for Sam's Wholesale and I did a little more shopping at Kohl's. By the time I got home I was tired! Can't seem to shop like I used to. Must be the age!
Easter Sunday was a good day. It felt a little crazy that morning, trying to get up and get to church by 8am. David had to be there by 7am to play in the orchestra and Ted to his venue by 8:00. So it was just Collin and I at home getting ready for church.
Later, David's parents, his brother and sister-in-law came over for lunch. We had ham, corn casserole, baked beans, salad, potato salad, rolls, Italian cream cake, peach cobbler, angel food cake with strawberries and several chocolate bunnies floating around. Way too much food! We had a nice time sitting out on the front porch talking. Overall it was a nice, relaxing day.
Last week started off with Art class on Monday. Kind of different since it's usually at the end of the week. However, it was a great class. One of the ladies in our homeschool group opens her home to all of us and Monday there were 17 kids plus moms! She sits the kids down in the livingroom and explains the type of art they'll be doing, then they move to the kitchen/dining room to work.
The lesson for that week was " clay sculpture"! There's probably no way I can adequately paint the scene for you, but picture this: 17 kids at the kitchen table and bar - wet clay, newspaper, buckets of water - and did I mention - 17 KIDS?!
Here they are (Collin in the red shirt)
creating the figure or bust out of newspaper and tape first.
Collin's bust is the head of SpongeBob(so fitting)
(notice the clay all over the tablecloth and hands)
On Friday David was off work so I was able to have a little time to myself. I had a great morning with one of my best friends. We had breakfast and coffee at Cracker Barrel, then off to Joanne's Fabric store, looking for Easter items and other things, headed over to LifeWay and found some great scrapbooks for about $2.00 (on clearance). That was the highlight of our day! She took off for Sam's Wholesale and I did a little more shopping at Kohl's. By the time I got home I was tired! Can't seem to shop like I used to. Must be the age!
Easter Sunday was a good day. It felt a little crazy that morning, trying to get up and get to church by 8am. David had to be there by 7am to play in the orchestra and Ted to his venue by 8:00. So it was just Collin and I at home getting ready for church.
Later, David's parents, his brother and sister-in-law came over for lunch. We had ham, corn casserole, baked beans, salad, potato salad, rolls, Italian cream cake, peach cobbler, angel food cake with strawberries and several chocolate bunnies floating around. Way too much food! We had a nice time sitting out on the front porch talking. Overall it was a nice, relaxing day.
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